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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We need to take OP's comments with a pinch of salt because her anger and bitterness comes through loud and clear. I am not saying the ex is some paragon of virtue but it is so obvious that she is upset about another woman having taken her place.

I am not apart of any anti-divorce crowd, but people need to be willing to take responsibility for their actions, bad decisions, bad judgement, etc. If OP f'ked up marrying a self absorbed guy, he did not become like that only after he became a father.

I suspect this is a situation where the ex has moved on, has a way better standard of living, a woman who he is sharing his life with whether permanently or temporarily and all this irks OP no end. So she makes this an issue pertaining to he daughter. It is so obvious that this is what is happening.

Unless OP has reason to believe that her child is in danger, she has no say in her ex's living arrangements. If she believes this to be the case then she should go to court and get the judicial process involved.

The one I feel really sorry for is the daughter who is having to deal with an unstable mother and, perhaps, a not so great father - based on all that OP spews about him, assuming one can believe anything she says. Even the VIP day attendance is a perfect example: if she genuinely believes that her ex is not the best person to take her daughter for the event, she should be the one who takes her not to give her ex a break but because she is concerned about the best interests of her daughter.[/quote]

Yes, I married the wrong guy. Yes, it was always self involved and yes, I was there to always fill in for whatever reason because I loved him. Add in a kid and my attention being diverted to being Mom was the problem. No after working full time and taking care of a 1 year old, no I was tired and didn't feel like sex with a person who didn't give me the time of day. Literally, I became just a body to him and yes, it tried to fuck me in my sleep. Good times. Funny enough, after being divorced I've found I really like sex, I just had 14 years of shit one sided sex. Yuck!

Here's the thing, I spend so much time "filling in" because he drops the ball constantly with my daughter that I've reached my limit. He now has a permanate babysitter in his house, so I'm done filling in. Custody is 50/50, he doesn't give me squat for child support and I'm done. Trying to co-parent with him is a nightmare so I'm not going to do it anymore.

And I'll say it for the last time, I don't give a shit who's in his house, but since she's been on the hook of taking care of my daughter at times, there should be some kind of dialogue in case of an emergency. Why is that hard to understand? The chick is not next of kin and has no authority over my daughter. None. [/quote]

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