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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thank you from the bottom of my heart for all of your responses. I tossed and turned all night mulling this over. We do love each other, despite my misgivings. [b]Everyone is already is town, including over half the guests who came all the way from from Europe. [/b]I'm getting married tomorrow. All I know is today and not whether my fiance will be a raging, abusive drunk in a few months or years. At my age of 34, I'm going into this with my eyes and heart wide open. I'll keep y'all updated.[/quote]

Best of luck OP, because you are really going to need it  :( [/quote]

Well, we tried.

As for the "guests coming from Europe" part, that is just amusing.
As if the guests coming from Europe makes the marriage itself so important. Guess what--your wedding guests will be annoyed down the road that they travelled all this way for a marriage that quickly fell apart. And that they went through the hoopla of celebrating your union with gifts, toasts, and other aspects of the celebration.
By the way, I've loved someone who I thought was the person I'd marry. He ended up breaking it off with me (actually by cheating) which was for the best since I believed in the power of my love to bring out the best in him. I wouldn't have wanted to ever leave a relationship with a person I loved so much and felt was my true companion. But now I'm happily married to someone so much better, and better for me. There are other fish in the sea....millions of them.
(And also, it seems that 90% of PPs who had pre-wedding jitters said that they were right in the end)
But since you are determined to go through with it, we can't offer you any advice now. But I find it interesting to her from the PPs so I hope the thread doesn't die out.[/quote]

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