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[quote=Anonymous]The young woman is only dating your friend for a fast ticket to the more affluent life she desires.

A lot of young women my age, including a number of close friends, hate the thought of marrying guys our own age because they don't want to wait another 10-15 years to pay off their student loans, be able to afford having children, buy the big house, drive the fancy car, and dress in designer clothe, shoes, and handbags.

Instead, they prefer to date men in their late 30s or into their 40s, who can already afford all those things -- even, by the way, if they are married.  I have explained to them that the first wife typically married the guy when he was young, and has been with him the 10-15 years it took to acquire all those things.  It is all so crass and depressing and materialistic.

My point is, yes, OP I would distrust the motives of someone my own age who preferred an older man, it probably is for his money, and she will probably look laterally his older guy friends for a better option for herself, or her friends.[/quote]

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