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[quote=Anonymous]Ok I'll play too:

- Despite the fact that we both work full time jobs, you will be responsible for figuring out all of our finances and paying our bills, all laundry, dry cleaning drop-off/pick-up, grocery shopping, cooking of all dinners, planning all vacations and our social calendar, researching all vendors and booking them, making sure that our child has everything they need, etc. I will tell you that I will take care of things like garbage and cleaning up after dinner/dishwasher loading and unloading, but will really never do it unless nagged...which will follow with me getting huffy and obnoxious toward you.

- I know that when we were dating I used to buy you little gifts, be affectionate with you and give you compliments. But after we are married I will only buy you a gift for your birthday and Christmas,  I will instead buy myself all sorts of gadgets and whatever hobby I cycle through at the time. I won't even buy or pick out anything for our children from me. Oh, and no more compliments....you're just there.

- I know that I seemed like a really handy guy who took a lot of pride in his things. But after we are married, I will refuse to do home maintenance and repair. Weekends are for me to relax, you know. I will only help with keeping up our home if pestered about it and I can't put it off any longer.

- After we have a child, I will not have sex with you anymore. I won't explain why. When asked I will tell you that it's hard because i'm tired all the time and we don't want to wake the baby. When you get upset about it and feel rejected I will stonewall you and pretend like the issue doesn't exist. When sex comes on TV or in movies and creates an awkward silence in the room, I will bury my face in my tablet and pray to God that you don't bring it up again.

- Every night, I will eat the meal you prepared for us, bury myself in reading tech articles online and then fall asleep on the sofa by 9 pm and snore like a freight train like an old man. I won't ask you about your day, or watch a show with you.

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