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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^OP, you seem to me to be very level headed and rational when it comes to your situation.  Don't let the DCUM harpies get to you- they do this to everyone.

Secondly, if you feel like this is unhealthy and unsupportive, and possibly abusive... for goodness sake, LISTEN.  Listen to your gut.

I will recommend to you to read the book "The Gift of Fear" by  Gavin deBecker, which is an amazing book about trusting your instincts.

If you are feeling totally emotionally bereft and unsupported in a relationship, then you need to be aware that that is unhealthy and really not okay. It's not going to work long term.  Therapy might be an option, but if he's not willing to change anything then I would personally consider a divorce.

You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders and if your friends' consensus is that this is unhealthy, please listen.

Also, google emotional/verbal abuse and try to decide if your case fits that.  If it does, run... and dont let the abuse naysayers on here make you doubt yourself.  You dont have to have a black eye to be being abused, and it's sad that so many seem to think you do.

Good luck to you, OP.[/quote]

More dumb advice from DCUM. [/quote]

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