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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This makes me sad.  I give my husband a back rub when he is having lower back pain even though I don't always feel like it.  He rubs my feet when I have aches before snow from a stress fracture even when he is tired.

We do things for each other because we love each other.  Being in a loving relationship does not require perfect reciprocity.  You can be "not in the mood" but still want to do something for your partner because you love them and want them to be happy.  It goes both ways.

Don't you love these men and/or women in your life?  Why is it duty sex if you are with someone you love and who loves you?[/quote]

Because they are in miserable marriages and you are not.[/quote]

And because we're so weird about sex, a lot of the argument going on here boils down to some folks refusing to acknowledge that nearly complete lack of reciprocity causes a miserable marriage. [/quote]

It's astounding. Just glad it's not my marriage![/quote]

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