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[quote=Anonymous]I'm sorry you're going through this, OP! You, your husband, and your baby all deserve better. Talk to your DH more (and go to counseling) to try to come to a compromise on how much help you two will give DSS. It will be more than you want, but less than what you are doing now. It will be more that what your DSS deserves, but this isn't ever going to be a fair situation where people get what they deserve. Just come to an agreement on what money and support DSS will get from you guys and stick to it. Expect nothing else from him (not kindness, not repayment, not love for your son). Just give him what you have agreed to give him and try to deal with him as little as possible beyond that. It sucks, but that's the only way you can get free of DSS' toxicity for now. GL![/quote]
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