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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]All of the males on this thread are utterly missing the point.  No one said OP should step up his game in the bedroom.  It's about the romance, stupid.  [/quote]

Nonsense - two guys on this thread have nailed it: let her know you know and aren't threatened, and demonstrate that you are attractive to other women.  Nothing like a) no longer taking hubby for granted and b) a little mate competition to get your attraction going again.  [/quote]

Why is it that men always feel competent to give advice on what women are thinking and feeling?

NO you are wrong. If anything this will piss the wife off and give her reason to get with the other guy.  She is not a dog, she is not going to respond to such dumb behavior.

And since his wife already has a potential hookup lined up and ready to go, I would not be baiting her or trying to start a game of "who can get more attention outside the marriage"...[/quote]

Why is it that women believe that the man they're ***about to cheat on*** should push his hurt feelings aside and shower her with romance when she clearly wants another guy?  As the cliche goes, she'll pretend it's having a slight effect, but won't be ready for sex yet (all while riding the fantasy guy, literally).

The fix to this is *not* to reward your wife with romance or anything else while she's "on" another guy.

Females giving males advice on how to fix this only ever benefits the female. [/quote]

Right. If you want the marriage to end, totally look at it as a power struggle and punish her and isolate yourself from her.  This will totally turn her on.  /s

OP, unless you want to end up alone and bitter like this guy, take the opposite advice.[/quote]

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