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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP again.

I am still unsure of what to do. I am still feeling pissed off and betrayed. I'm not the type to sleep around and he knew that. I was up front with him about that. He knew what he was getting into and assured me he was fine with waiting. I think I would be less mad if we didnt have sex. I believe intercourse is more intimate than oral ( in my opinion). To know that he almost fucked someone else and then turned around and slept with me is like a slap in the face. I've never been in this situation; its frustrating.

He has also stopped reaching out since early this morning. He told me it was the last time he was reaching out without any reaction from me. [/quote]

I agree with you- I think all these people saying oral is the same as intercourse are a bunch of prudes, or else just really odd and out of touch with modern dating.  I say cut him off.  How attractive is he? I have to say, maybe if this guy had the looks of say, Joe Manganiello, then I would consider forgivness. but unless he is some unbelievable catch I would be giving him his walking orders.[/quote]

As one of the PP's I didn't say oral was the same, I said it was more intimate to put a naked penis (and typically, semen) in your mouth than a condom covered penis in your vagina. Not a prude at all, just saying I don't get why not having sex is considered 'making him wait' when he is already getting BJ's.  Quite familiar with modern dating thanks-  when I want to have sex, I just do. 
But it doesn't matter how I see it because OP sees it differently which is her prerogative and I respect that.

OP you should feel pissed and betrayed because he betrayed you. I hope you move on and don't give him another chance.[/quote]

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