Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)
Reply to "What's It Like Being Married to a Smart Man?"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous]DH is widely acknowledged as one of the best academics in the world in a STEM field (he's a named prof at a top 10 university, gets tons of awards, etc), so he's smart. But he's not at all a narcissist and is definitely a funny normal guy. That said, I trust his judgement about most things more than my own (for matching our kids' clothes, I'll go with my judgement). I'm also very accomplished. Honestly, it's great, but smart + narcissist isn't worth it. They do not always go together. Smart + narcissist usually equals not actually that smart, just putting on a good show about it. Truly smart people are generally quietly confident, although occasionally they are also insufferably arrogant. I wouldn't have married someone whose judgement I didn't trust though, so while not being brilliant is not really the world's biggest character flaw, your wondering about this is kind of sad. [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics