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[quote=Anonymous]Hi OP,

1) I know the big issue is not about the dog.  But regarding the dog, if it's a hotdog, could it fit in a backpack for purposes of going down the stairs?

2) What is your next plan, now that you are out of the hotel and he hasn't checked on you?

3) Remember, OP, you don't have to do anything *right now.*  You can decide that this situation, this marriage, isn't working for you, but that doesn't mean you have to have the conflict now, or move out now…you can then relax and plan an exit for when things are not so "impending."  Figure out where to go, who will help you, etc., then make a move.  Could be months.  Could be in a year.

Also, if you decide that the marriage isn't working for you, then you don't have to engage about DHs behavior because you have mentally decided you won't be with him in the long run.

If you decide the marriage is worth keeping, then make a plan to try and work on it--but that also doesn't have to happen until things calm down.  I agree with the PPs who say you have to demand to be treated in a certain way, but that demand doesn't have to come today.[/quote]

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