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[quote=Anonymous]Honestly if she does not see a problem there is nothing you can do. I burned through so many jobs, friends and relationships that I finally had to admit it was me, not them. Until she hits this rock bottom place and realizes she is the source of her problems, she will not change. I am sorry you are dealing with this. Chances are she, like I was, offer many good traits during the good times/highs that it can be hard to disentangle. She, as I did, probably feeds off your emotional state and the emotions of others. You're going to have to cut off the source of her juice--your emotional engagement. Don't take the bait. BPDs don't mind at all when people get angry with them because it confirms their world view and fosters teir sense of righteous indignation. What they can't handle is calm collected loving boundaries, mostly because they never had them before!! GL[/quote]
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