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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here was humored by the spa weekend tangent, I do get a massage twice a year when I am at a work conference does that count?  I don't care about material stuff that much.    He has to drive luxury car and has a motorcycle.  He had a minor accident Saturday on his motorcycle and broke his wrist and is on crutches.  Yes, he went on that date despite the accident taking place the day before.

I did pull up cell records, he was texting to something that looked like yahoo messenger for a few days about a month ago.  Then it moved to a real cell number tons of texts starting a few weeks ago.   No texting since the big discover.

And one pp mentioned about him probably earning alot less than me, spot on, he quit a solid job five years ago and has not been able to work steady ever since, he has had contract and short term jobs but nothing permenent.  One year he did not work at all but was "looking."  He is currently on a six month consulting job but that will end too.   So yes, his impulse issues also impacted career as well.

Trying to keep it together this week as I am a few days from a 2 week work vacation.  [/quote]

OP, I am so sorry you're going through this.

I think it's important for you to think about what you want and what would be best for you, in addition to what would be best for your family. How old are your kids? If you divorce, it sounds like it's possible that you could end up responsible for child support given his income instability. It also sounds like he has a demonstrated history of poor decisionmaking skills and impulse control. It also sounds like he deflects and blames you for problems. If you are amenable to counseling, these are things that could probably be addressed there. In your posts, however, it sounds like there are other issues and that maybe you are not interested in resolving them so much as ending the marriage and moving on.

Either way, peace be with you during this awful time.[/quote]

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