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[quote=Anonymous]So, you spend all other holidays with your husband's family, plus see them every month, plus they get every other Christmas? This was me and my husband before we had kids...and let me tell you, I think you need to ease out of this schedule before the kids come along. We didn't and it's now causing a lot of resentment--my in laws now assume that we will see them for every holiday, plus our birthdays, plus their birthdays, plus the kids' birthdays, plus regular visits and we can no longer live up to that schedule. So, we are always "in trouble" with them, they are always complaining that we don't see them enough...it has become a burden to know that if we don't show up at their house for every random special day that they will be mad.[/quote]
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