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[quote=Anonymous]I'm not going to go through and read every response, but I would pull out the calendar and count up the holidays and number of surrounding days that you spend with inlaws vs your own family and have a number, like in 2013 we spent 6 holidays and 22 surrounding days w/ in laws and 1 holiday and 9 surrounding days w/ parents and show that to your husband. Sometimes people need to see it on paper to really grasp what is fair. Also, why on earth are you spending so much time w/ his family at holidays? It's 2 hrs, go up for the day, nosh on some turkey, and go home. Weird. I think you should take two cars to in laws this year, you go up for Xmas eve/morning, then home after lunch to be w/ your parents. DH can stay as long as he wants.[/quote]
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