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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Statistically, if a woman cheats the man will leave - no questions.  But, if a man cheats women tend to try and rebuild.  What would I do?  I can't say.  I haven't crossed that bridge in 20 years of marriage and hope I never do.  Fidelity means a lot to both of us however I would never say "never" you just don't know what curve ball might come your way.  Would I want to know.  Hum.. immediately probably yes, after passage of time with a one night mistake probably not and on going affair, yes I would most likely leave.  As for telling the man's wife, the only reason the "other woman" should tell the wife of the cheater is if the wife is in danger of health or bodily harm or if confronted (I would not lie for him).

All this being said, I believe in the 10 commandments and if you go around breaking them you will pay for your sins.[/quote]

I'm a woman who chronically cheats. My husband does not and will not leave. Why? It's the old Ann Landers question - he's better off with me than without me. Low sex drive, inhibited, won't give me some fairly basic sex acts. He knows he married me, then pulled a bait and switch. I make his life easy, both with the money I make and all the kid and domestic  stuff I do.  It's better for him, so long as I am discreet, to keep the status quo.[/quote]

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