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[quote=Anonymous]I used to think that it was selfish to not tell a spouse that you cheated, and that to not tell would mean you did not trust and had no remorse, regret, etc.. Now I am wondering if it is actually selfish to tell a spouse that you did cheat. If it really is about you feeling guilty and needing to make some attempt to salvage something honorable (truth) in a dishonorable act. But the more I think about it, the more I don't think the two cancel the other out. Remember the scene in Dark Knight where the butler burns the letter to Batman? Would it really have made a difference for him to know what she was not in love with him and was choosing Harvey? Are some secrets better kept in true love for a person, instead of a painful truth?[/quote]
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