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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Damn. I had to lol at the comments about OP being a bridezilla. You twits probably haven't meet any actual bridezillas if you think OP is one. She is upset her very good friend can't come to her wedding and she has a right to be. If I had a friend who said she couldn't go to an important event of mine because of finances when she went to other recent events, I'd feel stung as well.

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I don't think people are reacting to the "stung" (which is justified), but rather to OP's saying that basically this will change their friendship. Well, that and being jealous that friend attended another wedding and not HERS, which is now the reason the friendship will change.

No one has the right to dictate, judge, or shame for what someone else does with their time, money, or resources. Seems to me that friend has been a true friend when OP needed (first after surgery, etc). Now she is being called to spend money that she does not want to spend in order to attend a wedding that maybe isn't her thing. It's sweet to "be there in spirit", and decline gracefully if it's the truth.

OP is focusing too much on "her big day" rather than the whole scope of what happens between friends during a lifetime together. [/quote]

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