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[quote=Anonymous]Drinking and having hook-ups are not "bad behavior." They're personal choices, and there's no need to slut shame.

That people, the people who know you and see this behavior aren't going to view it as compatible with someone who's looking for a serious, committed relationship, they're going to see you as someone who wants to have random hook-ups (because that's what you're doing, it's very rational to assume that you want to continue to engage in the behavior you're actively engaging in). And for this reason, they will cross you off the potential girlfriend list and move you onto the potential hook-up list, and then will engage with you depending on whether they're interested in a random hook-up as well. When you are actually interested in a committed relationship, and not just saying it because it's what you're supposed to want, you'll start engaging in behavior that's more conducive to finding a partner. Not because you'll be conforming to some societal notion of what you should do, but because you'll lose interest in meeting guys who only want random hook-ups, and will start looking for guys who share your other interests.[/quote]

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