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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Get a court order to cease his assets and confiscate his passport[/quote]

^^^^^YES^^^^^^ what are you waiting for.  Move on it woman you may wake up to an empty house very soon if you don't!
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I know he is responsible for all his actions.  He is an adult and makes his own his choices.  But he is not a controlling and manipulative person as some are led to believe.  He touched not one cent of the thousands that were left in our checking and continued to direct deposit his entire paycheck in our acct. for the two months he was gone.  He may be unstable but he really is a puppet who lets people pull his strings. Most of all his parents.  And his dad left he and his mom homeless living in a car at 17.  Cleaned out their bank account and disappeared for four years. [b] DH has learned this behavior.  That is the reason I forgave him. Because he had a really hard life growing up with insane parents who neglected him and up until last year he spent 9 years trying to do everything right.[/b]

I'm not making excuses for what he did.  I probably cannot get over what he has done.  But I do have compassion and understanding for people and their flaws.[/quote]

I have daughters and I worry that they will be attracted to that guy with the troubled background and forgive him anything because of it.  There is that line between being compassionate and understanding that someone may have seen a different example growing up and not holding the person accountable to do better because they know better.[/quote]

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