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[quote=Anonymous] OP, first you have got to stop treating your husband like a roommate and viewing it as "just a season". If you do nothing else, cuddle with him and hold him. Give him a blow job and do it like you love him not like it's a duty. Viewing this as "just a season" gives him no end point. I can see why divorce would look good to him about now. I'ma woman with a baby if that matters. Second, if you don't like where you live, figure out what lifestyle you do want. It took my husband and I years to figure out what we wanted. Some of it was due to poor communication and health problems, some of it was due to being new parents. You have a right to have the lifestyle you want. Whining about how miss d.c. isn't productive. Finally, you are making a lot of excuses as to why you can't get treatment. That may be behind your husband's cruel comments. He has a right to have a healthy wife and to see that you are headed in that direction. If threatening divorce gets you to get help, he may be justified. Serving you tea and toast in bed while you bitch about your life while withholding love and affection from him is not what he signed up for. Realize that you are treating your boss like your husband and your husband like your boss. Your boss can always hire a new employee. Your husband can't get another wife. You tell your boss you have a medical appointment and you go. You tell your husband that you want to be a good wife to him and if that means you need to quit your job, then that's what you do. Not all women are able to work and be good wives and moms. You may be one of them. [/quote]
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