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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am the poster at 15:08....

One observation I would like to add.  To all of those who send your kids to private school and insist your kids are just as tolerant, giving, not-spoiled et cetera for the experience....I'd like to add an observation....which is, that time will tell how the environment has impacted them.

For example, I went to a great public school.  My DH and his family (who were not rich) went to a great private school.  My own (anecdotal) observation is that my husband, and his private school friends were impacted as adults by the experience of being in private school.  On the positive, they are all 'well polished' and know (or married) lots of rich people, which opens certain doors in the world.  But at the same time, they generally all ASSUME they will send their kids to private school.  They simply don't value public institutions and the idea of public school the way I do (and in my observation, people who grew up in public school).  And of course, why would they?  They were not in that environment/it was not a value that their parents choose for them.  They are by no means horrible people and may be charitable/tolerant et cetera in other ways...but the value of equal public education for all (and the general value for public institutions) is lacking.  Also, my DH (and his siblings) have certain lifestyle assumptions...My DH grew up with a bunch of rich people, and as an adult is very into the idea of having (or least appearing to have) that lifestyle.

Of course this is a generality and 100% anecdotal...but nobody should kids themselves that we can all have it all....and time will tell if your kid is as tolerant et cetera as you say....

And that is the point of my question:

I don't think my city public school will deliver as good as an education (you can't have everything), and am I crazy to pick it anyways, because of other values I have?

Thanks!

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With respect, I think you have the luxury of valuing the idea of public school because you went to a great one. Of course people tend to take their own experience into account when they plan for their kids' education. And because you had a great experience and it made you who you are, you want that experience for your child. And because your husband had a great experience at private school and it made him who he is, he wants that experience for your child. The trick will be to see what your specific school choices for your specific kid are, and make the best choice and try not to let your own 30 years of experience influence things too much.[/quote]

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