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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I do have times of anger,  and yes I do think my husband has terribly high expectations. Of course there are issues I didn't get into,  I'm not claiming I'm a perfect wife in any way,  he does have some legitimate complaints, but this is my thread to complain and vent, not his.

Yes, we really have sex 4-6x a week, possibly more at times. I don't think his complaint is that's not enough as much as my work interferes with him being able to have sex every day. I don't know,  sometimes I don't even get it and I've heard his spiel many times. And God forbid I get my period,  he takes that as a personal insult. My BJs are good, I don't finish him every time but it's not just "kissing the tip". But in general his desires are for an "anything goes" kind of woman, one who doesn't object to whatever he comes up,  anal, sex outside,  threesome, etc. I don't have that in me...yes we've tried it all but I didn't say yes quick enough to these suggestions or often enough for my "yesses" to matter.  He just remembers I said no at first and forgets he got what he wanted in the end. Me saying no at first takes the fun out of it.

I know counseling and therapy would be helpful.  He will not go. I haven't gotten my courage up for individual counseling. I know that sounds dumb and weak. I know I sound pretty pathetic in my posts. There is a lot of mutual resentments between us. I firmly believe we could get past it and work things out. I have zero desire to start over, attempt to coparent,  etc. He wants the opportunity to have the sex life I've described above.  [/quote]

Oh boy - I just read this and yes, he is a sex addict.  I would ask him to get treatment or end the marriage.  Im so sorry OP.[/quote]

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