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[quote=Anonymous]I don't think the issue here is what he does with his free "me" time. It's just that he gets all the "me" time and the spouse none at all. When things start shifting that way in my house, I "reserve" a sat/sun of mummy me time. As is, you are in duty this weekend, I am off duty- to a friends house, to a hotel, to the library, whatever. First, he realizes how much work it entails to be alone with kids; second, I am instantly less resentful; third, it is a good time to re- establish quotas of free time for each parent. Basically he needs to give 'back' whatever time he spends on his interests, so you can pursue yours whatever they are... Even if it's painting; reading; napping as in my case.[/quote]
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