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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not bad, don't complain. Some men go out with their friends and spend evenings at the bar. This is relatively mild.
Surely you knew 3 kids under 5 would be hard. The man earns the salary and pays for everything, so let him have the running
Stop making babies for now[/quote]

SHE knew 3 kids under 5 would be hard?! Um, she didn't make the babies by herself, nor should she be stuck raising them by herself while he disappears for all of his "me time." Him earning a salary and supporting his family does not entitle him to being an absentee father and husband.
I totally respect the man for being healthy and taking care of himself, but there are many ways he can do this without putting all the weight of raising the children on his wife. OP, I hope you can sit down and have a talk with him about this and that he is receptive to your feelings. There are plenty of ways for him to compromise and to still get to do what he wants sometimes. There just needs to be more balance, as many other posters have mentioned.  [/quote]

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