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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I get it, OP.  You discussed and planned that you would both put similar efforts into your careers and get similar satisfaction out of them, and that you'd both work.  Now he seems to have changed - he's not satisfied with his career, not putting much effort into it, and talking about being a SAHD.  That wasn't what you signed up for, he may be acting in large part unilaterally, and on top of that your relationship has been shaky enough that you're worried he's using you for your money (and perhaps will leave once he has enough "time in" to have earned alimony).  That's lot of things to discuss, most of them emotional.[/quote]

But he's not talking about being a SAHD. OP said he doesn't want to stay home and do the work of a SAHD.  OP and her family are covering most of that. He's in a rut job and career-wise but not motivated to do anything to change it. He does want to be seen as an equal provider and give money to his family for discretionary items whenever he sees fit, as they probably perceive him as being wealthy now. [/quote]

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