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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My answer is yes, I'd remain married, but I agree with some PPs that this is a depressing thread.

We have four kids; three are grown and one heads off to college in a couple of years.  After 25+ years with my DH, we're still very much in love & enjoy an active sex life.  He's my best friend, cliched as that sounds.

I tend to think of myself as a hedonist in many respects, but I guess compared to some others I wouldn't even register.  I don't expect to have earth-shattering, passionate sex for the rest of my life, but the warmth & intimacy of our lovemaking is wonderful for both of us.

[b]I wonder if as many people in the real world feel the way DCUMers do.  [/b]

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50% of marriages end in divorce, and my guess is at least half of marriages that stay the duration are functional but not very fun.  Then consider that BOTH halves of the couple need to be happy, i.e. one spouse is happy with sex or lack thereof and the other isn't.  So it should be no surprise that most people wouldn't stay if the kids weren't in the picture.

Signed, a DH who would is in a functional marriage with a great wife who has almost no sex drive and I would be gone in a heartbeat if we didn't have kids.[/quote]

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