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[quote=Anonymous]I think you're newly married and you are finding out what works or does't work in your marriage. It sounds like the people giving advice here have been married for a while and forget that they probably went through what you are going through.

I think as a couple you need to decide what will or won't work for you two. Some marriages are more relaxed about these things and some are not. I can tell you when I was single I was with a married man for a long time. His wife did find out and he did separate from her. I can tell you chances are IF he does start sleeping with her you will find out. If it's just a one time thing you probably won't, but then he wouldn't tell you about it before hand. If he starts sleeping with her frequently, he will come up with a million excuses why he can't be home. I think it happens but is very rare for someone to only have lunch time sex during the day with someone for a long period of time and never getting caught.

I am now married, not to ^^ that guy but we have a more relaxed marriage. I think if you ask him not to be friends with any women while you are married he will start to feel like you are being a little clingy.

On an interesting note. I was the one that wanted to meet my guy friends and many people on DCUM thought it was inappropriate. 
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