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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, it's really not the end of the world if she is having sex as long as she's responsible. [b]I had sex at 17 with my boyfriend and it was fine. [/b]Actually, it was wonderful in many ways. I was in a good relationship with a respectful boyfriend. I had many positive experiences and really, it was probably a much better start to my sex life than it would have been in a college atmosphere. If they have been dating a year, your daughter is not a virgin unless you are extremely religious.

Teens wouldn't wait for a family vacation to have sex the first time. You may want to get her on some kind of hormonal birth control, though. Teens + condoms are often a recipe for disaster. [/quote]

Oh, well, then, that's the final word. Your experience means so much.[/quote]

Well, I had almost exactly the same experience as the PP: Sex for the first time at 17 (well, a few months shy of 17) with a nice, respectful boy I was madly in love with.  It was a wonderful thing all told. Of course my authoritarian parents freaked out over it and tried to break us up ... only to regret it when I ended up with a MUCH WORSE bad boy!  They sure missed my Ivy League-bound nice first boyfriend when I started dating a college drop-out felon! Obviously I have to take some responsibility for my own actions, but I can assure you that the utter freak out, guilt trip, hysterical reaction of my parents to my first boyfriend had absolutely no positive effect on my behavior, and instead made me more cut off, alienated, and without good adult guidance than I already was.  [/quote]

Only proving the point that you were too young and too immature to be having sex.[/quote]

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