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[quote=Anonymous]I understand OP. I too believe that a man who cheats on his wife is NOT being a good father, because he is devoting time/energy elsewhere than on his family. I can understand not wanting such a person to have a role in raising a child.

That said, it's not how the courts see it. Period. End of story. If you want to hire a shark attorney, OP, and take him for as much money/support/alimony as you can, have at it. But trying to fight his involvement with your child will not be successful unless he's done more than what you've said here. If you try to suggest things that aren't true/substantiated, you're going to cause yourself more pain in the end, and you will end up becoming the justification that your ex tells himself, and eventually, will tell your kid, about why he had to cheat on you - see, Mommy really was vindictive, mean, etc.

You can't control what your ex did, so now you're trying to control the outcome of the situation - it's totally normal. It isn't, however, totally beneficial to your long-term interests to try to eliminate him from your child's life. The only thing you can control is yourself. Give up on the notion that you will get sole custody. Proceed from there. [/quote]

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