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[quote=Anonymous] [quote]And the PP who says posters are "looking to be offended," that's the other problem infertile women run into. They're [b]not allowed to be at all hurt[/b]. It's like people don't understand that until they make peace with infertility, it is a raw and open wound. Somehow people get nasty if an infertile woman gets upset or hurt. It's like infertile people are supposed to take all of the advice and suggestions but never feel emotion about their experience. [/quote]

My infertility is over, but the pain still comes back from time to time. The m/c one is the most painful of not being allowed to be hurt. A m/c followed by a successful pregnancy just fades away with the baby and all, but when with a m/c after IVF there is a very good chance that this is it for you, it is very painful. Like it is going to take some time to get over it painful.
The other I think most hurtful is the adopt suggestion. Very complex undertaking, and maybe that is not what you wanted. 
I think many women would like you to STFU so they can get on with their favorite current subject -- their baby; their kids. 
It can go on for years. Like the SN forum, if you haven't ben there, it's tough to understand.[/quote]

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