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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Another guy with somewhat of a different take.

Instead what you need to do is cultivate some interests that are of interest to you and to men.  For example, men are competitive in more ways than sports.  So, you may find some that are fanatics for various card games (poker is the easiest to find).  Look for trivia nights.  There are several places that host regular trivia nights, either trivia competitions or those console games.  There are games clubs around the area and they are frequently heavily male.  There's a very active science fiction community around and you can find a lot of men there, albeit this is the hangout of a lot of geeky guys.  Not just the guys with broken glasses who live in their parents' basement, but normal intellectual types that happen to like science and science fiction, probably work in sciences, engineering or IT.

Another earlier tip that I'll agree with, try not to hang out with so many of your girlfriends at once.  Many men find attractive females intimidating.  It's easier to approach a woman who is solo or in a small group (2 or 3).  Once you get 4+ women together (for some 3+ women), then a lot of men will not approach.  [/quote]

I agree on your point about hanging out with a large group of girlfriends. I had no problem getting dates in DC when I was single. I think it was because I rarely hung out with large groups of gal pals. Guys always told me that I was "approachable". I also was somewhat of a tomboy, so I enjoyed doing fun outdoor activities that guys traditionally like to do. Also, I would never dream of getting involved in a science fiction club to meet guys. Boring! You shouldn't force yourself into club activities that don't interest you just because you are desperate.[/quote]

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