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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP again. I made an appointment with a lawyer. We are not trying mediation exactly. We will have our own lawyers but they agree to work together. We sign contracts to the effect that if it takes an ugly turn they can not represent us at a trial. DH insists that should his lawyer tell him he is dreaming that he will trust it. We'll see I guess. I told him that I would probably running our agreement by a regular divorce attorney, and that he can do the same.[/quote] With this approach, here's what's going to happen: the costs are going to add up quickly. Your anxiety about money is going to add another layer of pressure that will lead you to take whatever lump sum he offers you. It's not going to be a fair amount. You and your children are going to suffer. You'd be wise to replace "probably" with "definitely" with regard to running your agreement by a regular divorce attorney.[/quote]
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