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[quote=Anonymous][quote]So someone I have been very good friends with for years (we are both in our 40's) with kids similar ages shocked me beyond belief by confessing to me the other night that she had a short term affair with a [b]graduate student who also plays a certain sport that was instructing one of her sons.[/b] He was renting not far from them and to earn money he was coaching/teaching offering private lessons, which is how they met. She said there was a very strong mutual attraction and that it happened very suddenly and she said she felt [b]"she had no control". [/b]He apparently has gone back home and it is over. She said she had to tell someone and I was that person. We had both had a glass of wine so she was obviously feeling a little bit more open than she normally might. [/quote]

OP that would make me very uncomfortable. There is a creepy cougar feeling to this, and the friend then disavows any responsibility by saying she had no control and so on. I know all these posters are super liberal about this (I wonder how they would feel if it was their DH) but I would not want to spend a week  with her DH knowing this about her. I think she was not a very good friend to confide this. Just moving the burden to someone lese. Unless she really doesn't want them to come to the Cape with them.[/quote]

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