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[quote=Anonymous]OP, all of this division of money + assets may not be up to him and you to decide on. Ultimately it will be up to the judge when you are in divorce court.

Have you been married for at least EXACTLY ten yrs.? The reason I am asking is because if so, then you are entitled to alimony from your husband which will help you out financially so you will have more of a cushion to live on along w/your own work earnings. Also since you will have primary physical custody of the children, you should also receive a fair amount of child support as well.

It sounds to me as if your husband is trying to negotiate what you will and will not receive. I think this is all going to be better negotiated in a court of law.

I am sorry you cannot afford an attorney. Are there any legal services in your area that can provide legal assistance for you if you don't have the financial means to? Or is there any one in your family that can loan you the money?

I am truly sorry that things have gotten to this point. Emotionally I know you must be feeling so low, but like you stated, you also have to think practically as well and I commend you for taking the bull by the horns + keeping a clear enough mind to try to figure out a road map for you and your children's future.

I know it isn't easy at all and I wish you only the best in your future endeavors.

Hugs to you as well.[/quote]

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