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[quote=Anonymous]Does your DH work in sales or law or some other related position? Because for him to lowball you with such an obscene initial proposal, then indignantly inch up to $1500k while acting outraged and berating you for your greed, pretty much smacks of hardball negotiation tactics. He starts with such a sh--ty offer that you're actually relieved and grateful for the second, slightly less but still really sh--ty offer. And then he has you where he wants you: paying you next to nothing, but leaving you thinking you've won something and making it so unpleasant for you that you just want it all to end already. It's textbook.

My prediction: Once he hears you're getting a lawyer, he will be terrified of having to pay you your due. He will change his tune and start offering more, in a desperate attempt to keep you from getting that lawyer. Anything he will offer you will be less than what you could get with a professional in your corner, so don't fall for it! He has shown his hand already. Get the lawyer first and don't let him talk you out of it.[/quote]

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