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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes, I worry every day and night.  Is that what you want to hear, OP?  That I quit my job willy-nilly and never once thought about the consequences.  [/quote]

OP here. I'm not sure whether you are being ironic here. No, that's not what I mean. Women make choices that benefit their family but damage their earning potential and I am not sure how much do they factor in the possibility of divorce.

My solution would be a prenup or postnuptial agreement that in case I made such a decision (possibly at his request), he would make up for any shortfall in earnings come divorce.[/quote]
How about making choices that benefit the foundational years of your child's early development? Your earning potential will never fix a neglected baby or toddler who wasn't loved all day, every day. Btw, I'm not talking about the long-distance love you have from far away in your downtown office.[/quote]

As an adoptive parent this really hurts to read. Because my child wasn't loved all day, every day you think her development is screwed? We both know that is not necessarily the case, just like there is no guarantee that your children, God forbid, won't end up screwed up anyway.[/quote]

Ignore that poster, PP.  Your child will be much better off than one living with a judgmental shrew like her.  There is not one shred of evidence that babies that are in daycare are less well-adjusted than their peers with SAHMs.  She's just trying to justify her existence.  And I guess her husband's downtown love that supports her lazy ass doesn't mean much to their kid.[/quote]

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