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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In light of the tragedy in Isla Vista, be careful with your words, OP. [/quote]

^^Don't be ridiculous.  Why do people feel the need to interpolate tragedies with their own personal lives?  You people know nothing about this guy except for the few sentences that OP wrote, but you're ready to hang him.  That's sick.

OP, follow the Golden Rule:  Treat him how you'd like to be treated if you were in his shoes.  Obviously, if the guy is in therapy, he has already suffered enough through life and is trying to get better.  Tell him the facts:  you can't see him anymore because his behavior makes you feel uncomfortable and worried about your safety, and that if he continues to work on his issues, he will eventually be a happier person who doesn't have to have a romantic relationship, which isn't guaranteed to last anyways, fill his needs.  As has been noted before, if you give him to much to go on, he may find something to argue about.  Don't insult him by being pedantic, and don't lie to him to manipulate his feelings, as some people have suggested.  If you just do a fade to black, he could start looking for the reasons you never gave, and that's where the stalking starts.  So treat him like the 40+ year old man that he is, or needs to become.[/quote]

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