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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband and I basically make the same amount of money, so we pool everything together and it works for us. We don't even have separate accounts anymore, but we married right out of school and so basically came into the marriage with 0 dollars, equal debt, equal salary. Two solutions I have seen that seem to work for couples who arent' comfortable with total merging: 1) combine a set percentage of your income into a joint account and all family/household expenses go through that. The percentage is useful when there's a big discrepancy in salary. [b] 2) combine all money into a joint account, but each partner maintains a separate account with "their own money." My boss, who makes the same as her husband, does this and they use their separate accounts for fun stuff like girls' weekends, golf trips, spa treatments. Otherwise, they manage the household together.[/b][/quote] This works for us. Direct deposit X amount into the joint account. Leftover $ stay in personal account for lunches, personal maintenance, etc.[/quote]
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