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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]While I am in favor of helping on a temporary (even a longer -term temporary) basis- the idea that 'life doesn't go as planned' is a poor argument to hold against OP. That would be relevant if it were one of her own children who came home pregnant and she wanted to shirk responsibility or disown or some other ridiculous thing. Its hardly entitled to be concerned about this

OP said nothing about ruining her "perfect" vision- her concerns are valid- you are projecting all that.[/quote]

[quote=Anonymous]All of this "life doesn't go as planned" is a BS argument to OP.  A relative getting cancer and needing help is "unplanned".  A teenager being supremely irresponsible and expecting everyone to turn their lives upside down to accommodate her selfish desire to raise a child when she is a child herself is not the type of "life doesn't go as planned event" that OP has any moral obligation to oblige.  [/quote]

So, her niece is not part of her life, and not part of her family, that's why she should say, "sorry, I made my plans and they are totally inflexible"?[/quote]

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