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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A wife here...

I think once a week is not bad.

When I was single (before marriage with other long-term partners), I was probably having sex 3-4 times a week.

After marriage, probably once a week.

After a kid (and one on the way), hardly ever. I am just not interested anymore. I thought single sex was way better than married sex. And then kids wipe out any thought of sex.

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Not flaming you by any stretch, but what, exactly, do you expect your husband to do in this position?  If my DW felt this way--and she might but would never tell me--I would just prefer that she level with me and cut me loose.  Does your DH know you feel this way?[/quote]

PP here: Yes, my husband knows my feelings. We both agree sex was better before marriage. Also, he has low testosterone and doesn't have much of a drive. One of my exes had high testosterone and we were doing it all the time...but I could see how in a marriage, it could have been exhausting. I think the problem is me, but my husband does not seem to mind as he has his own issues. Part of the problem is that I really never wanted kids and my husband talking me into trying. We got pregnant one time. Second kid, same thing. So, it has almost been like sex has been a punishment. Just not carefree when reproduction is involved--hence, my lack of interest.[/quote]

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