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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She has control over whether she wants/desires sex?  She has control over her libido?

Seriously, you believe that?[/quote]

Well, if that's true then the DH sure as hell doesn't.  No amount of dishes, cooking, and cleaning will help so PPs who say men should do more in these situations have no idea.  Its unfortunate that sex often becomes the "chore of last resort" for many wives and husbands.  Its not fair to their spouse.  Instead of feeling offended or annoyed that your spouse finds you attractive and wants to be intimate, try to figure out what's wrong and fix it.  Because without intimacy, the marriage becomes nothing more than roommates who share bills and a primary reason why so many spouses look elsewhere.

Again, when one partner repeatedly tries to be intimate and is rebuffed for YEARS, it gets very hard to keep putting in the effort.  I shouldn't have to jump thru hoops every time for my wife to want sex.  Meet me half way. Hell, meet me 10% of the way.  When one spouse controls the frequency of sex, it creates much of the resentment you see here.[/quote]

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