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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As the mother of a somewhat challenging child, it makes me sad to hear that people are going to shun me and my son because of it.[/quote]

Spare me.  You aren't being shunned because your child is challenging, you're being shunned because of your failure to manage your child's behavior.

Two of my three kids have SN, the youngest, in particular, can be challenging.  I haven't noticed us being 'shunned' because we're on top of my DS's behavior and the other kids and their parents know what our rules are.  If behavior is inappropriate, it's called out and there are consequences.  Yes, it can be a hassle but when everyone knows what's expected, it's pretty tolerable.  The older kids feel empowered and are far more tolerant and guiding than they would be otherwise.  If it gets out of hand, I'm informed and take action.  And, I make sure I and the other kids have time with our friends without my challenging youngest child.  The friends I've made since my youngest was diagnosed tend to have SN kids but we certainly haven't lost any of our old friends.  My friends with SN kids have similar parenting styles and are on top of behaviors as we are.  That makes me willing to be part of their circle.

I don't blame the OP for wanting to avoid her BF's child.  She sounds awful.  I've got limited energy and I wouldn't choose to spend it in those kinds of gatherings.  It would cost me more than it's worth. [/quote]

So what you are saying is it is really the OP's bff's fault. Not the girl's fault. Because if her mom was 'managing' her better, people would still be willing to spend time with the girl. I don't know if that is entirely true, but I am the poster who said my son is challenging, and yes, just to clarify, I definitely keep a close eye on him. Though he is not acting out in mean ways, just a handful.[/quote]

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