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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When I got out with DH, I dress up for him.  When I got out with girlfriends, I dress up for me since it is an ego boost when someone says "WOW that dress looks great on you!"  "Have you lost weight?" etc.  I don't care if other men also happen to notice a plunging neckline or a short hem.  DH is the only guy for me and I decline drink offers and don't dance with other guys. [/quote]

I think women get a bit of a power trip from knowing they can get guys worked up with no intent on following through. [/quote]

And I think the same thing can be said about guys who get checked out by women.  Look, it's human nature to get an ego boost when someone of the opposite sex notices you or pays you a compliment.  That doesn't mean there is any intention to cheat or to toe the line of what is appropriate.

But perhaps OP's wife feels that her husband doesn't pay attention to her, doesn't compliment her, etc and is seeking that from other men.  Doesn't mean she's cheating, but could be worth exploring.  OP have you talked to your wife about what is bothering you without accusing her of cheating?  You may be surprised to learn she isn't totally happy. [/quote]

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