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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Did she break your brother's arms, and now he can't pick up a phone? He has 100% control over whether he contacts his family and how much time he spends with you. Stop blaming the woman.[/quote] I agree 100% percent. It's the BROTHER'S responsibility to maintain a relationship. Women in DCUM seem to blame SILs constantly. It makes you wonder why women hate each other so much.[/quote] This. Stop scapegoating. You have a choice. You can either adjust your expectations and respect the boundaries or you can get yourself in a snit, cause some drama and risk losing the relationship completely. Maybe your relationship with your brother wasn't what you thought. Maybe he doesn't want to babysit and take you out for meals anymore. That doesn't mean he doesn't love you or some evil sinister SIL has brainwashed him. Maybe he just doesn't want to be around someone who hates his wife.[/quote]
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