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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are just making it appear as if they are somehow different but nice and kind are the same thing. For example "[b]Nice[/b], on the other hand, is not being cruel, or not being mean. There's nothing [b]not nice[/b] about saying no, or disagreeing, or arguing, or speak up, or standing up for yourself, or rocking the boat -- as long as you're not doing it to be cruel" See how that works? [/quote] Then why do so many women, and girls too, say, "I want to say no/I didn't say what I thought/I didn't want to stand up for myself -- I thought people would think I wasn't nice."? I agree that there actually is nothing not-nice about saying no. But most people think otherwise, especially when it's a woman or girl saying no.[/quote]
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