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[quote=Anonymous]I think it was somewhere around 15 men and one woman.  This was almost entirely in college--all but around three...one in late high school, and two (one of whom is DH) after college.  I went to a very socially liberal SLAC where there was a tight knit community and not a lot of slut shaming, and where people were very conscientious about using protection.  Didn't get any diseases (well except one abnormal pap from HPV, which something like 90% of the adult community has--which cleared up on its own without intervention) and never got pregnant.  There were relationships, one night stands, "fuck buddies," and everything in between.  I don't regret it at all.  I learned a lot about myself in those years, and a small college community was a relatively safe space to explore my sexuality.  I met DH when I was 22, my first year of my PhD, and by that point I knew myself and what I wanted in terms of a partner and sexually what I needed pretty well, and we got married at 24.  I don't think I would have been as ready to "settle down" so early if I hadn't spent those years in college exploring that side of myself and my sexuality.  When I got married people always asked about whether I regretted not having more time to experience other sexual relationships, and I was like "you have NO idea how wild I was in college."

DH knows about my past and doesn't care.[/quote]

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