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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP,

The next time he says something like that when holding the baby - just march up to within an inch of his face, raise your voice and state that you will not be sabotaged behind your back, that he better start pulling his weight, and stop the negative attitude. You are the one who has been sick and needs to recover, and he can stop being passive-aggressive and start acting like a man. Finally, that he should apologize for his entitled behavior. Leave the dishes in the sink and go to bed with baby. Don't lift a finger for him until he apologizes.
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Is that really how you feel a spouse should act when frustrated? Is that how you want your husband to treat you when he is upset with you? To get up in your face and yell? Tell you you better start acting like a woman?

Ops added details make this seem like her husband had big problems and is borderline abusive. Getting abusive back is not going to make any situation better. The fact OPs DH wasn't like this before is at least a hopeful sign that he is just really not coping well right now with life and needs to get his act together. Op, hope things get better for you soon.

And OP about 95% of the woman on here also don't see value in a woman staying home with the kids or child rearing and also see it as a vacation - so that is likely a sentiment that your husband may be picking up from the women he works with. People on here tell SAHMs with little ones all the time that they should have dinner on the table and have all the housework done if they are home all day.

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