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I would wonder if she even has any grades.  Maybe not even attending classes.  may be a lot more going on here than just not allowing mom to see the grades. The secrecy is definitely a red flag warning.[/quote]

This.  This happened to an acquaintance.  His DD wouldn't hand over the grades and made noise about "independence" and "maturity" and "trust."  Turns out his DD was continuously stoned for much of the first year, was in a different boy's bed every night, and wound up with a sheet full of C- and D-range grades, from what I remember.  DD was told not to come back absent taking a year off.  Record destroyed, $55,000 down the tubes.  In HS, DD had been the sweet cute "good kid" who got As andBs.

OP, make the demand.  [/quote]

How would the parents seeing the grades have changed this?  Are they going to show up and make demands?  How does that work?  The college handled it, they made the girl take time off.  Thats the way it works, when they screw up or need help (I suspect the latter was the case here -- sounds like there might have been a mental health issue) there are consequences.  Just like if you screw up on a job.  You don;t need parents to create the consequences.[/quote]

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