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[quote=Anonymous]pp here...29 year old male...I do look for dates these days that have a potential for something to grow into (so no flings), but it is a bit worrying to read this thread because if anything I should be the one not giving the 30+ women crowd a chance and I don't do that.

Hell, I was going out with a woman who was engaged 4 times but not married (in her early 30's)...I didn't hold it against her...so it's sad to hear i'm being judged for not having settled down.

People need to judge others on a case by case basis, and not just write people off en masse before hand. try to understand the past before making a bold judgement against it.

Personally, I think a lot of it has to do with finances.

I'm probably still single because a large part of my twenties were terrible in terms of joblessness/financial stress, that lead to some depression, even though I'm a cultured an educated person.

Simply put, in my social circle of men 25-34, those making over 100k (or medical residents) got married before 31, with most in their mid-late 20's....those making under 100k haven't. The only one that ended up getting married who isn't making six figures married his high school sweetheart.

My anecdotal evidence suggests finances are probably the biggest road block for a decent guy who is willing to get married.

Would like to hear what opinions you ladies have. [/quote]

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